Get a free psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comUnless one is already with their soulmate, this subject seems to be foremost on people’s minds. It doesn’t seem to matter if you are a male or a female. Everyone seems to be searching for a soulmate.

The key word here is searching. You can search for years and never find your soulmate, and yet just as you are looking for them, they are looking for you. What is wrong with this picture? Why do soulmates seem to be so difficult to find?

We ask ourselves, “Did I make a wrong turn in life somewhere and somehow missed them? Have I been too focused on work or just surviving and tuned them out? Did I meet them and not recognize them for who they were? Am I not as ready as I think I am to truly find love? Is there really such a thing as a true love soulmate? Have I been wasting my time trying to find that special someone?”

Our universe grants every soul a twin – a reflection of themselves – the kindred spirit – And no matter where they are or how far away they are from each other – even if they are in different dimensions, they will always find one another. This is destiny; this is love ~ Julie Dillon

My guides have repeatedly advised me that there is someone for everyone and that we are not meant to be alone on this earth.  They say that when we are with our soulmate and learning to love and receive love, it is the first step toward being able to fully relate to Spirit and the Creator. They also say that our soulmates are a “gift” from the Creator, for us to enjoy and share life and love with.

In my years of counseling people on this subject, I have found that you do not search and find your soulmate. Instead, you ‘attract’ them to you. You focus on living your life and being happy with wherever you are in your life. Because, when you are happy, you will, eventually, attract them to you. There are several tools that may be utilized to help you with this:

Hypnosis & Past Life Regression

In the last few years, I have had great success using this tool to help connect people with their soulmate (the person they are meant to be with at this time in their life.) This technique can also help you release any blocks you may have that are interfering with you being able to connect with your soulmate.


Visualization is a powerful tool, especially after you have removed any blocks that are keeping you from your soulmate. Relax and close your eyes, and then visualize a little ball of energy right in front of your Third Eye. Make note and pay attention to exactly how this energy ball appears to you, as it may be a hint to help you recognize your soulmate.

For example, several of my clients saw a “man-in-the-moon” face. Their soulmates were Cancers which have the Moon as their ruling planet. Others saw a Sun and their soul mates were Leos – ruled by the Sun. One saw a purple light and her soulmate came driving up in a purple car and wearing a purple shirt; his favorite color was purple. Others have seen various other colors in their ball of light and all were significant in some way.

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being ~ John Joseph Powell

Once you have this ball of energy visualized, which is the soul essence of your soulmate, you will talk to them and they will hear you on a subconscious level. Here is an example of what you can say to this soul essence when it appears:

“Thank you for coming in. I have been waiting for you for a long while now. I am ready for you now and I need you to get ready for me.  This is our time to be together now. So, if you are in agreement with this, I need you to come forward now and find me. Thank you again for coming in today and I will meet with you again tomorrow.”

When you ask them to come forward if they are in agreement with you, usually, the soul essence will either move closer to you or it will get larger and brighter in some other way.   If this happens, you know they have heard you on a soul level and are in agreement.    By using this visualization frequently, you are literally building a relationship with your soulmate. By becoming familiar with their energy this way, it helps to recognize their energy when they come in. You may not know what they will look like exactly, but you will recognize their energy.

It is important to be open to what comes in, as your soulmate will not always be 100% what you expect. They may be younger or older than you think. They may look different. In some cases, they have come in to people in a different coloring, ethnic group or even gender. One person had always been attracted to white collar type people and hers came in as a blue-collar worker with his own business, complete with long hair and tattoos! But, he was everything she had asked for and definitely her soulmate. I have several clients who brought in their soulmates, and then decided to stay single and just date or be friends, even though their soulmates wanted to be married. It is always your choice if you wish to change your mind.


Affirmations are a tool that can assist you in removing blocks that are preventing you from connecting with your soulmate.  Hypnosis is probably the most thorough in accomplishing this, but affirmations often work equally well:

  • We are always guided and protected.
  • We are released from all that holds us back.
  • We are united now in perfect love, understanding and commitment.
  • We forgive and we are forgiven.
  • We love and are loved.
  • We make only correct choices and decisions.(This removes all the doubt.)
  • Only love exists between us now.
  • We are grateful for all our blessings.

Utilizing all of these techniques will, most of the time, bring your soulmate to you within one to six months. Then it is up to you what you do with them, or how long you take to accept them.

Over a period of years, Spirit through my Guides, gave me these methods to help others. But, once I was ready, I used for myself as well. So, I can personally attest that these methods work. I practiced all of them. I did not have to look or search. He came in from out of state on the other side of the country and found me. I trust that you will have the same results. You are welcome to call me if you need clarification.


Channeled by Sharon Michelle from “The Collective.”

Q: What can you tell me regarding the use of past life regression? Is it a valid tool?

“Yes, this is a tremendous tool for all of you to utilize, and one that can release you from your remaining karma and clear all the blocks that are keeping you from your important missions.

Utilize this tool. Heal yourselves. Free yourselves from the cycle of karma. This will enable you to use all your energies in performing your life’s mission. By freeing yourselves in this way, you can then follow through with aligning yourselves with your Higher Purpose, and actually be able to accomplish your mission.

As the blazing fire reduces wood to ashes, similarly, the fire of Self-knowledge reduces all Karma to ashes ~ Bhagavad Gita

You are guideposts. All any of you have to do, is to do your share, by whatever means available to you. You are to share your words, your knowledge, your vision, and your understanding.

Each of you has an audience, whether it be one person or thousands of people. Some of you who awaken only one person will have awakened someone who has the ability to awaken thousands.

So, you see, each of you has an important part to play. One part, though seemingly small, is just as important as another which seems to play a larger role. Each is given what is achievable for them.

You need not think that this is an overwhelming task. For some of you, it is very small. For others it will be more public and attract more people back to their path.

There are thousands and thousands just waiting for a clue, a way to wake up so they can align with their Higher Purpose. They just need the guideposts to point them in the right direction. They are willing, just lost or not yet awakened. The more people that are spreading the message out there, the more people will see it and awaken.

If the karma of man has brought him nothing more than a capacity to love, then he has not lived in vain for a thousand past lives. It is this love which makes the most humble of Souls so great that it lifts him beyond all life into the worlds of God ~ Shariyat-Ki-Sugmad

This is your mission. You are the guideposts. You volunteered to be here, in this incarnation, at this time, not just to complete your karma, but to be a guidepost to help awaken others.

You came here to be a part of this great movement of Light, to raise the vibration of this planet to its next level of consciousness, and to free it, and its inhabitants, from the chains of darkness that have enslaved and imprisoned most of humanity for so long.

You are here at this time as warriors fighting for the Light of Freedom, of Creativity, of Peace, of Harmony, and of Love.  You are here to help usher in a New Age of Enlightenment and to break free of karmic patterns.”


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Lately, in my conversations with clients, there seems to be much more interest in spirit guides. Usually, the questions are about how many there are, whether there is more than one, and most significantly, who are they?

Many people seem to be of the opinion they have only one spirit guide. In my experience, I would have to say that it is much to the contrary. People seem to have many guides. They may have one or two that are higher spiritual energies, who act as a type of ‘supervisor’ over the other guides who are not quite as elevated.

For instance, a person may have an archangel or other religious avatar that functions as their main guide. Then there are many other guides that are experts in various things, whom assist according to their expertise.

“Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.” ~ Rumi

A person, who is a writer, may have a muse that assists them with their writing. If they are also musically inclined, they will have another guide that assists them with their music. If you wish to become an accomplished chef, you will have a guide that is an expert in preparing food. Thus, we have as many guides as we have interests.

If we develop a new interest or skill, we then attract another guide to us.  They come as we need them. They are always there just waiting, but because of our gift of free will, they are not allowed to do much for us, unless we request it. It is necessary for us to ask for assistance. If we do, they come willingly and joyfully.

Sometimes, a guide is a relative that has passed over.  A few days ago, a client came in to see me. Her dad had died recently and she was concerned that in acting as the executor of their father’s estate, she had not complied with his wishes pertaining to his new wife. She had decided that the money belonged to his children, and that his new wife was not entitled to anything.

“The soul is usually much happier in heaven. If they didn’t finish their life’s purpose, they’ll often act as spirit guide to the living person, to vicariously fulfill their mission through that living person.” ~ Doreen Virtue

During the reading the father was present and he made it clear that his will had been made out the way he wanted it to be, but that he forgave her. He was just sad, because she didn’t do what he had asked. He loved his wife and wanted to provide for her.  He kept telling her that there was no difference between any of them. His daughter thought she was protecting family, and he was trying to tell her that blood didn’t matter; they were all one. In this instance, her father was acting as a guide for her.

In my work doing Quantum Healing via a special hypnosis technique, I actually see the healer guides as they are working on the client. They always present as a group and work on the client’s issues as a group; much like a real surgical team does in the operating room in any hospital. They will literally take the person’s part on an ethereal level completely apart, wrap it, massage it, send energy in and put it all back together again.  What they do is very real, because the client experiences remarkable healing.

“In this world you never stand by your own strength; It is the Invisible that sustains you every moment.” ~ Sa’adi

During a recent session a client asked to have the blocks removed that were keeping her from working directly with her higher self. When this question was asked, the guides were elated as a group, and so happy and joyful that the client wished this. Obviously, they were more than happy to comply.

So, when you need help, call us, as we can assist with the help of our guides. But remember to also ask your own guides for help. When I do readings or hypnotic healing, I always ask that your guides work with my guides to bring you the help and answers you need.


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I have been working some with a friend in Dallas and we are getting great info when we get together.  Our recent session was no exception.  While in Dallas last week, we had another thought provoking session.

She had major issues with her mother and her mother died a few years back without having resolution.  My friend started having heart fibulations after that.   So, in talking, we decided to ask SC about that. They said it was connected. Her mother had not realized the effect that her critical suggestions to her daughter had had on her or the negative effect they had had and she wanted to express her sorrow and regret.   The daughter was able to feel her mother’s remorse and realize her mother did truly love and accept her.  Hopefully, this will bring about healing.

“.”Don’t think of organ donations as giving up part of yourself to keep a total stranger alive.  It’s really a total stranger giving up almost all of themselves to keep part of you alive – Author Unknown

SC also stated that another issue was that her mother had difficulty passing and releasing the material world completely because she had donated her body to science.  The problem came in because the body needs to be either buried or cremated within three or four days of death.  Donating to science means that this doesn’t happen for 30 days and sometimes even more.   So, her mother was not able to release this world quickly and properly.

So, I decided to ask what happens when the body is donated as an organ donor.  SC said that was different.  That was a gift of life to others which enabled the soul to accomplish more karmic completion through the gift.  Not only were they giving the gift of life to another, a fragment of their soul stayed with the body part donated and they literally lived on with the recipient body’s soul and were able to continue reaping the benefits of the recipient’s soul lessons and soul advancement as their own.

“We cannot live only for ourselves.  A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men.” – Herman Melvill

Because the body is kept alive while the organs are parceled out and then disposed of through burial or cremation, the soul is released like in a normal death.   The reason some recipients reject the part is that there has to be a soul contract for this exchange of body parts.  If there is no soul contract, then there is a rejection of the tissue or organ.  If there is a soul contract, then the procedure takes and the souls continue on with their mission in life and fulfilling their destiny.

In short, the main difference between the two procedures is the gift of life with organ donation. This is more desirable because the body doesn’t die like it does with donation to science.  For proper release of the soul, it is necessary to bury or cremate the body promptly within just a few days.  With organ donation, this is done. It is not done with science research donation as the body is allowed to die and yet is does not go through the burial process until a much later time. This seems to put the soul into limbo for a while.

A very  interesting session, it answered many  questions I have always had about these procedures and brought up more questions that can hopefully be addressed in a later session..


Many times people discover their own past lives spontaneously.

It could happen on a trip away from home to a strange city or country, and it unexpectedly feels familiar. You know the path already to find your way to a building, business, or other attraction.

You may also feel particularly drawn to a particular culture or part of the world very different than your own.

Other times, meeting someone new starts triggering memories from the past. It could be feelings of intense dislike, immediate attraction and familiarity, or even love at first sight. All of these are indications that you have known that person before.

Another source of triggered past life memories are our dreams. You may dream of being in another place or time, and you may feel like you really experienced that life. It is hard to tell the difference as to whether it was a dream or an actual memory.

Even seeing photos or a painting of a past life personality can trigger the memories. Once these memories are triggered, they usually keep coming back with each episode, bringing more and more details to your consciousness.

“Why write a book on uncovering past lives? Because the benefits for personal empowerment, healing, and enlightenment are tremendous.” – Ted Andrews

Both exceptional abilities and phobias are also indications of past life experiences and talents. If you have spent a number of lifetimes developing musical abilities, then you are often drawn to music again in a current life and may excel at it. A good example of this is the phenomenon of child prodigies.

An example of inexplicable phobia would be if you or someone very close to you died from drowning, which would probably cause you to be very afraid of water in this lifetime.

If you find that you have had something triggered in your consciousness that feels like it may be coming from a past life, try sitting down and meditating on it.

Make yourself comfortable in a quiet setting and just focus in on the person, phobia, place, feeling or situation; ask your Higher Self where this comes from.

Or, you might ask your subconscious before going to sleep at night to show you more detail in your dreams, and to clarify it for you there in detail.

There are many indications in astrology that indicate past life influences, abilities and connections with others. Some psychics are able to pick up on past life karma as it relates to the current life.

EFT and hypnosis practitioners trained in past lives are able to release much of the trauma that originated in past lives. Sometimes information can even be obtained through automatic writing.

I have used all these methods in connecting with my own past lives, and I have also used them to help others to do the same. Many of these methods you can research, or learn to do yourself. Simply becoming more aware is a good start!

If you would like more information than you can manage to find on your own, try consulting an astrologer, psychic, hypnotist or a past-life regression therapist that is well versed in dealing with past lifetimes.  If you feel the need to consult a professional to help you with this, be sure to select someone with experience and most importantly someone you feel comfortable with.