The key word here is searching. You can search for years and never find your soulmate, and yet just as you are looking for them, they are looking for you. What is wrong with this picture? Why do soulmates seem to be so difficult to find?
We ask ourselves, “Did I make a wrong turn in life somewhere and somehow missed them? Have I been too focused on work or just surviving and tuned them out? Did I meet them and not recognize them for who they were? Am I not as ready as I think I am to truly find love? Is there really such a thing as a true love soulmate? Have I been wasting my time trying to find that special someone?”
Our universe grants every soul a twin – a reflection of themselves – the kindred spirit – And no matter where they are or how far away they are from each other – even if they are in different dimensions, they will always find one another. This is destiny; this is love ~ Julie Dillon
My guides have repeatedly advised me that there is someone for everyone and that we are not meant to be alone on this earth. They say that when we are with our soulmate and learning to love and receive love, it is the first step toward being able to fully relate to Spirit and the Creator. They also say that our soulmates are a “gift” from the Creator, for us to enjoy and share life and love with.
In my years of counseling people on this subject, I have found that you do not search and find your soulmate. Instead, you ‘attract’ them to you. You focus on living your life and being happy with wherever you are in your life. Because, when you are happy, you will, eventually, attract them to you. There are several tools that may be utilized to help you with this:
Hypnosis & Past Life Regression
In the last few years, I have had great success using this tool to help connect people with their soulmate (the person they are meant to be with at this time in their life.) This technique can also help you release any blocks you may have that are interfering with you being able to connect with your soulmate.
Visualization is a powerful tool, especially after you have removed any blocks that are keeping you from your soulmate. Relax and close your eyes, and then visualize a little ball of energy right in front of your Third Eye. Make note and pay attention to exactly how this energy ball appears to you, as it may be a hint to help you recognize your soulmate.
For example, several of my clients saw a “man-in-the-moon” face. Their soulmates were Cancers which have the Moon as their ruling planet. Others saw a Sun and their soul mates were Leos – ruled by the Sun. One saw a purple light and her soulmate came driving up in a purple car and wearing a purple shirt; his favorite color was purple. Others have seen various other colors in their ball of light and all were significant in some way.
It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being ~ John Joseph Powell
Once you have this ball of energy visualized, which is the soul essence of your soulmate, you will talk to them and they will hear you on a subconscious level. Here is an example of what you can say to this soul essence when it appears:
“Thank you for coming in. I have been waiting for you for a long while now. I am ready for you now and I need you to get ready for me. This is our time to be together now. So, if you are in agreement with this, I need you to come forward now and find me. Thank you again for coming in today and I will meet with you again tomorrow.”
When you ask them to come forward if they are in agreement with you, usually, the soul essence will either move closer to you or it will get larger and brighter in some other way. If this happens, you know they have heard you on a soul level and are in agreement. By using this visualization frequently, you are literally building a relationship with your soulmate. By becoming familiar with their energy this way, it helps to recognize their energy when they come in. You may not know what they will look like exactly, but you will recognize their energy.
It is important to be open to what comes in, as your soulmate will not always be 100% what you expect. They may be younger or older than you think. They may look different. In some cases, they have come in to people in a different coloring, ethnic group or even gender. One person had always been attracted to white collar type people and hers came in as a blue-collar worker with his own business, complete with long hair and tattoos! But, he was everything she had asked for and definitely her soulmate. I have several clients who brought in their soulmates, and then decided to stay single and just date or be friends, even though their soulmates wanted to be married. It is always your choice if you wish to change your mind.
Affirmations are a tool that can assist you in removing blocks that are preventing you from connecting with your soulmate. Hypnosis is probably the most thorough in accomplishing this, but affirmations often work equally well:
- We are always guided and protected.
- We are released from all that holds us back.
- We are united now in perfect love, understanding and commitment.
- We forgive and we are forgiven.
- We love and are loved.
- We make only correct choices and decisions.(This removes all the doubt.)
- Only love exists between us now.
- We are grateful for all our blessings.
Utilizing all of these techniques will, most of the time, bring your soulmate to you within one to six months. Then it is up to you what you do with them, or how long you take to accept them.
Over a period of years, Spirit through my Guides, gave me these methods to help others. But, once I was ready, I used for myself as well. So, I can personally attest that these methods work. I practiced all of them. I did not have to look or search. He came in from out of state on the other side of the country and found me. I trust that you will have the same results. You are welcome to call me if you need clarification.