ATTRACTING YOUR SOULMATE

Get a free psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comUnless one is already with their soulmate, this subject seems to be foremost on people’s minds. It doesn’t seem to matter if you are a male or a female. Everyone seems to be searching for a soulmate.

The key word here is searching. You can search for years and never find your soulmate, and yet just as you are looking for them, they are looking for you. What is wrong with this picture? Why do soulmates seem to be so difficult to find?

We ask ourselves, “Did I make a wrong turn in life somewhere and somehow missed them? Have I been too focused on work or just surviving and tuned them out? Did I meet them and not recognize them for who they were? Am I not as ready as I think I am to truly find love? Is there really such a thing as a true love soulmate? Have I been wasting my time trying to find that special someone?”

Our universe grants every soul a twin – a reflection of themselves – the kindred spirit – And no matter where they are or how far away they are from each other – even if they are in different dimensions, they will always find one another. This is destiny; this is love ~ Julie Dillon

My guides have repeatedly advised me that there is someone for everyone and that we are not meant to be alone on this earth.  They say that when we are with our soulmate and learning to love and receive love, it is the first step toward being able to fully relate to Spirit and the Creator. They also say that our soulmates are a “gift” from the Creator, for us to enjoy and share life and love with.

In my years of counseling people on this subject, I have found that you do not search and find your soulmate. Instead, you ‘attract’ them to you. You focus on living your life and being happy with wherever you are in your life. Because, when you are happy, you will, eventually, attract them to you. There are several tools that may be utilized to help you with this:

Hypnosis & Past Life Regression

In the last few years, I have had great success using this tool to help connect people with their soulmate (the person they are meant to be with at this time in their life.) This technique can also help you release any blocks you may have that are interfering with you being able to connect with your soulmate.

Visualization

Visualization is a powerful tool, especially after you have removed any blocks that are keeping you from your soulmate. Relax and close your eyes, and then visualize a little ball of energy right in front of your Third Eye. Make note and pay attention to exactly how this energy ball appears to you, as it may be a hint to help you recognize your soulmate.

For example, several of my clients saw a “man-in-the-moon” face. Their soulmates were Cancers which have the Moon as their ruling planet. Others saw a Sun and their soul mates were Leos – ruled by the Sun. One saw a purple light and her soulmate came driving up in a purple car and wearing a purple shirt; his favorite color was purple. Others have seen various other colors in their ball of light and all were significant in some way.

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being ~ John Joseph Powell

Once you have this ball of energy visualized, which is the soul essence of your soulmate, you will talk to them and they will hear you on a subconscious level. Here is an example of what you can say to this soul essence when it appears:

“Thank you for coming in. I have been waiting for you for a long while now. I am ready for you now and I need you to get ready for me.  This is our time to be together now. So, if you are in agreement with this, I need you to come forward now and find me. Thank you again for coming in today and I will meet with you again tomorrow.”

When you ask them to come forward if they are in agreement with you, usually, the soul essence will either move closer to you or it will get larger and brighter in some other way.   If this happens, you know they have heard you on a soul level and are in agreement.    By using this visualization frequently, you are literally building a relationship with your soulmate. By becoming familiar with their energy this way, it helps to recognize their energy when they come in. You may not know what they will look like exactly, but you will recognize their energy.

It is important to be open to what comes in, as your soulmate will not always be 100% what you expect. They may be younger or older than you think. They may look different. In some cases, they have come in to people in a different coloring, ethnic group or even gender. One person had always been attracted to white collar type people and hers came in as a blue-collar worker with his own business, complete with long hair and tattoos! But, he was everything she had asked for and definitely her soulmate. I have several clients who brought in their soulmates, and then decided to stay single and just date or be friends, even though their soulmates wanted to be married. It is always your choice if you wish to change your mind.

Affirmations

Affirmations are a tool that can assist you in removing blocks that are preventing you from connecting with your soulmate.  Hypnosis is probably the most thorough in accomplishing this, but affirmations often work equally well:

  • We are always guided and protected.
  • We are released from all that holds us back.
  • We are united now in perfect love, understanding and commitment.
  • We forgive and we are forgiven.
  • We love and are loved.
  • We make only correct choices and decisions.(This removes all the doubt.)
  • Only love exists between us now.
  • We are grateful for all our blessings.

Utilizing all of these techniques will, most of the time, bring your soulmate to you within one to six months. Then it is up to you what you do with them, or how long you take to accept them.

Over a period of years, Spirit through my Guides, gave me these methods to help others. But, once I was ready, I used for myself as well. So, I can personally attest that these methods work. I practiced all of them. I did not have to look or search. He came in from out of state on the other side of the country and found me. I trust that you will have the same results. You are welcome to call me if you need clarification.

LEAD WITH YOUR HEART, BUT USE YOUR BRAIN

Get a free psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comPart of my spiritual focus in recent years has been the bringing of soulmates into our lives. My guides have been pushing me in this direction for a few years now. They are stating that those on the other side are very concerned that so many people are out there either alone, or with the wrong person. They say that we are meant to be with a soulmate, and that we are not meant to be alone. This is something they stress regularly to me:and that I need to be helping people connect with their soulmates.

The number one reason most people consult a psychic or intuitive counselor is for advice on their love life. Often the main reason for failure in a relationship is that the individual isn’t clear on what they are looking for in a relationship and end up settling for someone who is less than they deserve or want, or with no one at all. Often they even marry just because someone was available and asked them. They settle because they don’t want to be alone.

Marrying the wrong person only denies you both a chance at your soul mate ~ Alessandra Torre

When we look for a new job, we give it a lot of thought. We search and interview carefully, until we find something that suits us. We know what we want to do, how much we hope to earn, and what location we want to work in. When we look for a new place to live, we scout out a number of options before making a decision. If we are looking for a new employee, we interview a number of contenders, and we select the best candidate for hire.

But, with a relationship, many of us settle for the first person that is available, or the first one we feel some attraction to, without really seeing if that person truly fits our needs and wants.

The better you know yourself and what you are looking for, the better chance you have of connecting with the right person. In counseling people, the first thing I ask them to do is to make a list of all the good and then another list of all the bad traits that their parents, past relationships, and mentors had.  Chances are they will be attracted to these same traits in a future partner, because this is what they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, we are often attracted to people who possess the negative traits of our parents. It is not until we are way into the relationship that we find we have attracted someone who possesses all the negative traits of one or both of our parents.

What we really need is someone who possesses all the positive traits of our parents. Such a person would be someone we can be comfortable and happy with. Because this is all done on a subconscious level, we often have no idea of the mistake we make, until we are months or years into the situation!

Love may be harder to find in some people, but when they do love you know it must be something marvelous ~ Criss Jami

Can this be avoided? Absolutely. When you make your lists and compare them, you will see the pattern of your relationships and why they have not been working.  You’ll begin to understand why you are ending up with the wrong people.  Or, maybe you are ending up with those that are picking you instead of waiting for what you want.   When you begin a new relationship in the future, pay attention and be absolutely sure that this new love interest does not possess those negative parental traits. This involves getting to know yourself and why you are picking the people you are picking, and taking time before jumping into a new relationship.

Often someone who possesses the positive qualities you know you want feels less comfortable to you, because these qualities are less familiar and you find yourself pulling away. Having your list to refer and compare helps you to take a chance and say, “This doesn’t feel comfortable because it is so new, but it is everything I want. Perhaps, I need to give it a chance and see what happens.” 

Without your list to remind you of the qualities you are seeking, you might go back to your old pattern of selecting people with negative qualities, just because they are familiar. So, lead with your heart, but also think with your brain in selecting your soulmate. That person who feels a bit scary, because the energy is so new, may just be your desired mate.  Get to know them before you jump in. Make sure they are the one.

TWIN SOULS

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Channeled from The Collective by Sharon Michelle.

Q. Tell me about the Twin Flames and the purple light?

A. As Earth moves further into the Photon Belt, people are waking up. Because they are beginning to wake up, it will be easier now for them to find the romantic partner souls they are meant to be with at this time. They are beginning to manifest more of what they have been needing, so relationships will start coming together more. It will be easier to see clearly what one needs to do.

People will start gravitating to what and who they need in their lives. This will include places as many will decide to move to far-away places even though they have been happy where they have been for many years. As they change so do their desires, their dreams, and their motivations. The period coming will be known as a time of change. We are nearly there.

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being ~ John Joseph Powell

There will not be so much of the shattering Earth changes that have been predicted for so many centuries, but certainly there will be change.  Change is not to be feared however, but embraced. For there will be much joy and positive changes to be made in people’s lives and in the world.

All must remember that Spirit, God, Creator wishes for all to have and be with their perfect partner in life. When one is not, it is because they are not seeing the possibilities that exist all around and they do not understand the power of asking Spirit for assistance. All they have to do is ask and we, like a magic Genie, will bring to them all they are asking for. People have forgotten to ask us and trust that we will help.

Know that we are always here at your beck and call, even when you believe we do not hear you, we do. But you must be clear in your own minds what it is that can make you happy. Write it down, revise it, and finalize it. Write down exactly what you want and what you do not want. Once you are clear, then we can bring in exactly what you wish. Sometimes, it takes a little while to work through the limitations of the material world to bring people together from different locations. But all is possible for us and for you by working together.

Rather than running around looking for that special someone to love, it is better to focus on what you want, ask us for help with it, and then go about living your life and enjoying every moment of it. Trust us to bring the person in at the right moment in your life. The Photon Belt is lifting many of the limitations interfering with you receiving our help. So, you will be noticing that many things are coming to you easier now and your intuition is getting stronger. This will continue over the coming 2100 years.

Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. Creating a soulmate could be seen as a spiritual reward that we give ourselves, after pursuing many soul contracts rife with discord ~ Linda Brady

To live life fully and take full advantage of your opportunity here in this life, it works best when you are with that special person you seek. We wish for you to have this person in your life. When you are united with the soulmate you contracted to be with, you are able to raise your vibratory level higher than previously possible. With that love you share, you can share with the rest of the world.

WE ARE ALL SOULMATES

The word soulmate is probably one of the most misunderstood words in our English language. What most people think of as a soulmate is actually the meaning applied to twin flame soulmates. In reality there are many different types of soulmates.

Clients call me all the time asking, “When will I meet my soulmate?” Or, they may ask if the one they just met is their soulmate. Still others are convinced that the one that got away is their only soulmate and they are doomed to be unhappy in love, because no one else will ever do. Others, who are in addictive, co-dependent or completely dysfunctional relationships, also sometimes ascribe the name soulmate to their partner. The familiarity that we feel with certain individuals is there because we have been together many times, but it isn’t necessarily always romantic.

“Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment, are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment.” ~ Deepak Chopra

Astrology teaches us that relationships come together to help us and teach us, enabling us to grow and evolve. Past life regression shows us the same. Some souls regularly join us to help us, to be a part of our lives, and work together. However, in one life, they may be our father, in another our mother, in another our child or sibling, and in another our dearest friend. Or we may even find that we were a slave or servant to them in a past life, and they were our master.  In one instance of past life regression, the client had come together with a spouse who had killed her children and spouse in a previous life.  In this life, they married so that he could give back to her the children he had taken away in a previous life.  Once this was accomplished, she was free to leave him.

I see many people who are married to people they felt had to be a soulmate, as there was such a strong love between them. The love was real, but it was on a more platonic level and not physical or romantic. Why is this?  Because, their past life history shows the love built up strongly over multiple lifetimes, but they were siblings, parent and child, and best friends – not lovers. So, in the current life, the love is so strong they feel they have to be soulmates. Are they? Yes. But, they are not romantic soulmates and do not fit the twin soul ideal.

In my own life, I met someone who I felt had to be that magical soulmate that books and songs are written about. I can’t imagine ever feeling that strongly about anyone else. Yet, in past life exploration, I found that he was not considered to be a true soulmate and that he was merely a helper soul. In one past life he had saved me from a terrible marriage, and in this life he had come back in to save me again from marriage to the wrong person. Once the danger of making that mistake was over, there was no more reason for us to be together and the relationship dissolved for no apparent reason.

“A soulmate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communicating and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace.” ~ Thomas Moore

This is a common occurrence for relationships. When the purpose for being together has been met, the relationship often just dissolves and you drift away from each other often without any obvious reason.

Many believe that each of us has only one true soulmate. I believe this to be untrue, as all of us are connected on a soul level. We are all ONE.

Imagine a drop of water in a glass, next to a well or a stream. The drops of water in this glass are more closely linked than they are to the drops of water in the well or the stream.  Yet, if you pour the glass into the stream, you cannot tell one drop from another. They are all closely bound, as one body of water. So it is with our souls. The ones in closer proximity to us for a longer period of time seem to be more familiar – hence the term soulmates.

However, you can only determine one drop of water from another by separating them. By combining them with more water, they become a part of the whole body of water – one!

So, your friends, family, lovers, children, teachers, and even enemies and rivals, can all be soulmates. You all incarnated together to serve a particular purpose and grow and learn together. Anyone, who inspires us to stretch, grow, heal and become more than we previously were is a soulmate.

Embrace all who are in your life – your lessons and hardships, as well as your joys. As you learn to embrace all of life, you will find yourself connected in joyful and successful ways you had never previously imagined.

TWIN SOULS CONNECT ON MORE LEVELS

 

Recently, I’ve been seeing a lot of soulmate connections coming together for many of my clients and friends. Having this on my mind, I thought perhaps you might also be interested in the subject of soulmates.

First of all, we connect with other people on many different levels:  spiritual, intellectual, physical, emotional, soul purpose, and life path. Not every soulmate will connect on all of these levels. Some will connect on just one level. You will feel a very strong bond with this person, but only on that one level.

The term ‘soulmate’, as it is generally perceived, usually indicates that you connect on four or five of these levels with the same person. A relationship with someone where you are connecting on this many levels is rare and can be pretty overwhelming, as well as unforgettable.

“My life has been the awaiting you. Your footfall was my own heart’s beat.” ~ Paul Valery

A soulmate connecting on multiple levels of four or more is someone who can literally ‘knock your socks off’.’ This person will alter your life in previously unconsidered ways. This is the person that you would follow through ‘hell and high water’ to be with. This is what is referred to as a twin soul.

Once, you have connected with a twin soul,  others pale in comparison. This person can know you better than you know yourself and vice-versa. This is the person that romance novels, movies, and songs are written about. Lest you think it is all rosy with twin souls, they have ups and downs just as do other relationships.  The difference is that they usually feel it is worth it.

The intensity is so much deeper in a twin soul relationship. Often the participants initially try to fight it. This is particularly true if they have a history of disappointments in love. But, regardless of how hard they try to fight it, the feelings remain ever strong and they keep coming back together, until they learn to accept and enjoy the ride.

If one or both of the participants decides to continue to deny and fight the strength of these connections, it can actually have disastrous effects on their health and happiness. However, if they take the chance and embrace the connection, the opposite is true. It gives increased joy, energy, and vitality to each.

“In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” ~ Maya Angelou

Not everyone meets their twin soul during their lifetime. Even for some who do, it doesn’t come early – it comes later in life. Of course, some people meet them earlier, but deny it because of other commitments. Frequently, they are able to get together later when the commitments and responsibilities to others are dissolved and the karma between them has been completed. There are a lucky few who actually meet their soulmate early in life, recognize them and live a life full of happiness together.

Research estimates that 25% of marriages that take place are twin soul relationships. These are the lucky ones. After 50 years of marriage, these couples are as much in love as they were when they first met. They go through the trials and tribulations in life and are still very much in love. But, for this to happen, both people have to accept the intensity of the love and commit to it, and embrace it as the rare gift that it is.

When you are with your soulmate, you feel energized by their presence. It is as if a light comes on when they are around. You feel you can accomplish all you need to do. You feel joy and happiness toward all those around you. You are happy so you want everyone else to be so also.

You want your soulmate to be happy too, so you do whatever it takes to make that so. You sacrifice for that person’s welfare. You can’t imagine a life without them in it. You know that love can conquer all. And, it can conquer some pretty huge obstacles. Through it all, the love and the connection remains. Years can go by and the connection is still there – ever strong. It transcends separation, distance and death.

“What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life? There to strengthen each other, to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.” ~ George Eliot

Now, in the current period of longer lives, busier and more eventful lives, and much spiritual work to do – and karma to complete before the major changes that are coming – many people are incarnated without their soulmates. This is because they have much work to do while they are here. Often, in these instances, the soulmates are on the other side helping them from the spirit realm.

So, if you are lucky enough to be one of the 25% of people who are actually able to connect with a twin soul, please cherish them. Don’t deny the connections but embrace them and see them as a gift from spirit to help you through life’s ups and downs. Take the chance to be truly deeply happy.

Affirmation for today:

I am released from all the negatives that are keeping us apart. I am now united with my perfect soulmate in perfect communication, love, harmony, peace, understanding and commitment. Only good exists between us now. I am grateful for this blessing in my life.

GHOSTLY WEDDING AT HISTORIC HOTEL

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This year’s holiday on July 4th was a little different than most.  As a licensed Metaphysical Minister, I have become used to being open to different kinds of wedding situations, as innovative brides and grooms choose to move away from the old traditional settings.

But, today’s wedding was a totally unexpected scenario. A frequent guest at one of the island’s historic hotels hired me to officiate a wedding ceremony and blessing for a ghost couple.

Yes, you heard that right – a ghost couple! Apparently,  in the early days of the hotel, a wedding was planned.  The bride and her family came in from out of town for the wedding, but for some reason, the bridegroom was out at sea and failed to make it in time for the wedding.

The bride’s family waited and then returned home. The bride stayed.  Having given up on the fiance returning, and not wanting to face a life without him, the bride threw herself from the upper terrace of the hotel.

When the bridegroom finally arrived, he was devastated. According to the story, he then took his own life.

I would rather be a ghost drifting by your side as a condemned soul than enter heaven without you. Because of your love, I will never be a lonely spirit – Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

The couple now haunts the room and the halls of the hotel, and they are often seen by staff members and others who are sensitive enough to be aware of such things.

After hearing the story, and seeing an actual photo of the couple that was taken by a tourist last year, an international business man and frequent guest at the hotel, decided to give the ghostly couple a proper blessing of their union and wedding ceremony.

The wedding took place with myself officiating and a number of the hotel employees serving as witnesses.

Because of this compassionate man’s gift, this couple can now be at peace.  He took the time to personally oversee the staging of the room, just as if his own daughter were getting ready for her wedding and honeymoon night.

The bed was decorated with fresh flowers, iced champagne, rose petals strewn throughout the room, white scented candles and fabulous view. Add wedding music, guests and ceremonial blessings and you have a loving couple who are finally released to move forward toward the Light.

Their sponsor even timed the ceremony so that its ending would coincide with the beginning of the county fireworks display, taking place just a couple of blocks away out over the water in full view of the hotel room.  What a send off that was!

As outlandish and unusual as this seems, there is a real reason for doing this.

You see, when someone passes over to the other side in a traumatic manner, they often do not realize they are dead. Couple this with unfinished business, and you have a recipe for ghostly haunting.

By performing this ceremony for this loving ghostly couple, their union is now blessed, their unfinished business is completed and they can now move forward together toward the Light.

The hotel may have lost two of their favorite ghosts, but they have gained a comfortable hotel room. For instead of being an uncomfortable place to be, the room is now filled with love and peace.

Keep in mind this story when you are preparing services for your loved ones. Though they are no longer in incarnation here, their true essence continues on. Their love continues on. Love is forever.

Visit PsychicAccess.comThis year’s holiday on July 4th was a little different than most.  As a licensed Metaphysical Minister, I have become used to being open to different kinds of wedding situations, as innovative brides and grooms choose to move away from the old traditional settings.

But, today’s wedding was a totally unexpected scenario. A frequent guest at one of the island’s historic hotels hired me to officiate a wedding ceremony and blessing for a ghost couple.

Yes, you heard that right – a ghost couple! Apparently,  in the early days of the hotel, a wedding was planned.  The bride and her family came in from out of town for the wedding, but for some reason, the bridegroom was out at sea and failed to make it in time for the wedding.

The bride’s family waited and then returned home. The bride stayed.  Having given up on the fiance returning, and not wanting to face a life without him, the bride threw herself from the upper terrace of the hotel.

When the bridegroom finally arrived, he was devastated. According to the story, he then took his own life.

I would rather be a ghost drifting by your side as a condemned soul than enter heaven without you. Because of your love, I will never be a lonely spirit – Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

The couple now haunts the room and the halls of the hotel, and they are often seen by staff members and others who are sensitive enough to be aware of such things.

After hearing the story, and seeing an actual photo of the couple that was taken by a tourist last year, an international business man and frequent guest at the hotel, decided to give the ghostly couple a proper blessing of their union and wedding ceremony.

The wedding took place with myself officiating and a number of the hotel employees serving as witnesses.

Because of this compassionate man’s gift, this couple can now be at peace.  He took the time to personally oversee the staging of the room, just as if his own daughter were getting ready for her wedding and honeymoon night.

The bed was decorated with fresh flowers, iced champagne, rose petals strewn throughout the room, white scented candles and fabulous view. Add wedding music, guests and ceremonial blessings and you have a loving couple who are finally released to move forward toward the Light.

Their sponsor even timed the ceremony so that its ending would coincide with the beginning of the county fireworks display, taking place just a couple of blocks away out over the water in full view of the hotel room.  What a send off that was!

As outlandish and unusual as this seems, there is a real reason for doing this.

You see, when someone passes over to the other side in a traumatic manner, they often do not realize they are dead. Couple this with unfinished business, and you have a recipe for ghostly haunting.

By performing this ceremony for this loving ghostly couple, their union is now blessed, their unfinished business is completed and they can now move forward together toward the Light.

The hotel may have lost two of their favorite ghosts, but they have gained a comfortable hotel room. For instead of being an uncomfortable place to be, the room is now filled with love and peace.

Keep in mind this story when you are preparing services for your loved ones. Though they are no longer in incarnation here, their true essence continues on. Their love continues on. Love is forever.

Visit PsychicAccess.comThis year’s holiday on July 4th was a little different than most.  As a licensed Metaphysical Minister, I have become used to being open to different kinds of wedding situations, as innovative brides and grooms choose to move away from the old traditional settings.

But, today’s wedding was a totally unexpected scenario. A frequent guest at one of the island’s historic hotels hired me to officiate a wedding ceremony and blessing for a ghost couple.

Yes, you heard that right – a ghost couple! Apparently,  in the early days of the hotel, a wedding was planned.  The bride and her family came in from out of town for the wedding, but for some reason, the bridegroom was out at sea and failed to make it in time for the wedding.

The bride’s family waited and then returned home. The bride stayed.  Having given up on the fiance returning, and not wanting to face a life without him, the bride threw herself from the upper terrace of the hotel.

When the bridegroom finally arrived, he was devastated. According to the story, he then took his own life.

I would rather be a ghost drifting by your side as a condemned soul than enter heaven without you. Because of your love, I will never be a lonely spirit – Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

The couple now haunts the room and the halls of the hotel, and they are often seen by staff members and others who are sensitive enough to be aware of such things.

After hearing the story, and seeing an actual photo of the couple that was taken by a tourist last year, an international business man and frequent guest at the hotel, decided to give the ghostly couple a proper blessing of their union and wedding ceremony.

The wedding took place with myself officiating and a number of the hotel employees serving as witnesses.

Because of this compassionate man’s gift, this couple can now be at peace.  He took the time to personally oversee the staging of the room, just as if his own daughter were getting ready for her wedding and honeymoon night.

The bed was decorated with fresh flowers, iced champagne, rose petals strewn throughout the room, white scented candles and fabulous view. Add wedding music, guests and ceremonial blessings and you have a loving couple who are finally released to move forward toward the Light.

Their sponsor even timed the ceremony so that its ending would coincide with the beginning of the county fireworks display, taking place just a couple of blocks away out over the water in full view of the hotel room.  What a send off that was!

As outlandish and unusual as this seems, there is a real reason for doing this.

You see, when someone passes over to the other side in a traumatic manner, they often do not realize they are dead. Couple this with unfinished business, and you have a recipe for ghostly haunting.

By performing this ceremony for this loving ghostly couple, their union is now blessed, their unfinished business is completed and they can now move forward together toward the Light.

The hotel may have lost two of their favorite ghosts, but they have gained a comfortable hotel room. For instead of being an uncomfortable place to be, the room is now filled with love and peace.

Keep in mind this story when you are preparing services for your loved ones. Though they are no longer in incarnation here, their true essence continues on. Their love continues on. Love is forever.

This year’s holiday on July 4th was a little different than most.  As a licensed Metaphysical Minister, I have become used to being open to different kinds of wedding situations, as innovative brides and grooms choose to move away from the old traditional settings.

But, today’s wedding was a totally unexpected scenario. A frequent guest at one of the island’s historic hotels hired me to officiate a wedding ceremony and blessing for a ghost couple.

Yes, you heard that right – a ghost couple! Apparently,  in the early days of the hotel, a wedding was planned.  The bride and her family came in from out of town for the wedding, but for some reason, the bridegroom was out at sea and failed to make it in time for the wedding.

The bride’s family waited and then returned home. The bride stayed.  Having given up on the fiance returning, and not wanting to face a life without him, the bride threw herself from the upper terrace of the hotel.

When the bridegroom finally arrived, he was devastated. According to the story, he then took his own life.

I would rather be a ghost drifting by your side as a condemned soul than enter heaven without you. Because of your love, I will never be a lonely spirit – Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

The couple now haunts the room and the halls of the hotel, and they are often seen by staff members and others who are sensitive enough to be aware of such things.

After hearing the story, and seeing an actual photo of the couple that was taken by a tourist last year, an international business man and frequent guest at the hotel, decided to give the ghostly couple a proper blessing of their union and wedding ceremony.

The wedding took place with myself officiating and a number of the hotel employees serving as witnesses.

Because of this compassionate man’s gift, this couple can now be at peace.  He took the time to personally oversee the staging of the room, just as if his own daughter were getting ready for her wedding and honeymoon night.

The bed was decorated with fresh flowers, iced champagne, rose petals strewn throughout the room, white scented candles and fabulous view. Add wedding music, guests and ceremonial blessings and you have a loving couple who are finally released to move forward toward the Light.

Their sponsor even timed the ceremony so that its ending would coincide with the beginning of the county fireworks display, taking place just a couple of blocks away out over the water in full view of the hotel room.  What a send off that was!

As outlandish and unusual as this seems, there is a real reason for doing this.  You see, when someone passes over to the other side in a traumatic manner, they often do not realize they are dead. Couple this with unfinished business, and you have a recipe for ghostly haunting.

By performing this ceremony for this loving ghostly couple, their union is now blessed, their unfinished business is completed and they can now move forward together toward the Light.

The hotel may have lost two of their favorite ghosts, but they have gained a comfortable hotel room. For instead of being an uncomfortable place to be, the room is now filled with love and peace.

Keep in mind this story when you are preparing services for your loved ones. Though they are no longer in incarnation here, their true essence continues on. Their love continues on. Love is forever.

I would rather be a ghost drifting by your side as a condemned soul than enter heaven without you. Because of your love, I will never be a lonely spirit – Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

Monday evening, after the ceremony, a friend and I were in the living room of my home.  My friend suddenly notices some flickering lights.  We both tried to figure out what they were and she teased me about them being entities attached to me.

Later she started showing me some photos on her phone.  Some of the photos were taken at a wedding in a very old building said to be haunted.  Spirit orbs were visible everywhere.  Suddenly, she asked me to scan her aura and see if there were orbs behind her.  I did and sure enough, there were two big orbs side by side over her right shoulder.  She kept insisting they didn’t belong to her so they must belong to me.

Never before had I seen such a set of orbs in my house.  She handed me the camera and asked me to take a picture.  When I looked through the viewfinder, I saw two pin points of bright lights dancing around her always staying the same distance apart.

It couldn’t have been anything on the lens as they were moving all over the place.  Then I realized.  All day I had been wondering if it had worked, if the ghost couple were now at peace and hoping for a sign.  As soon as I realized that it must be the couple from the night before, the lights disappeared.  They gave me a sign.  They are now happy, joyful and at peace.